Last week I wrote about the gifts of Advent, how during these days we feel a spirit of expectation and longing for the Presence of the Divine, that Advent helps us affirm that God is present in our world today. I also wrote that during this season we are reminded that we have been called to be faithful stewards of what is entrusted to us as God’s people, and that it’s a time to recognize that we too contribute to the problems of the world.

As I’ve pondered those words this week, I’ve been reminded of  the many fallen ‘heroes’ – some of whom are in the public eye – these days, the people we believed in and hoped would be able to lead us or inspire us – from politicians to ministers, even our friends. I came to the conclusion that none of us is perfect, that we all have issues, problems, and rough sides. Unfortunately, when we focus on our imperfections and ruggedness, we often withhold what we might have to give to the world because we are embarrassed or ashamed of ourselves.

It’s truly pointless to expect that anyone, including ourselves, will be perfect or without flaws. Even those who make efforts to diminish suffering in the world or who try to create a better way of life are often flawed, just like everyone else. At times they may be even more so. Many of the people I love have imperfections and blemishes – just like me. Sadly, we all have the potential to be mean, cruel, stupid, and even worse.

But I do think there’s hope. Being aware of our imperfections and our faults may be a way to help us feel a connection to everyone else on Earth. It may open us to being more compassionate and to having greater courage. Perhaps our honest struggle with our flaws and weaknesses and the decision to move forward anyway will help us to grow and to become more whole.

Yes, even with our imperfections, we still have something we can offer to the world.

Emmanuel, God within us, we thank you for being with us and loving us. We are so grateful for this Advent Season, a time for us to take a look at our imperfections, a time to be more compassionate with those who are flawed – others and ourselves. May we accept who we are and still offer our gifts to the world. Amen.

Joy Carol

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